➡ransvestia
It was late one evening, and as we sat quietly talking, I told her that I had something very important to tell her. I told her not to interrupt me till I finished, unless I asked her a question. I told her that when I fin- ished she could ask questions if she wanted to. I started off by asking her what she thought of people who were different, such as people who were born crippled, or people who were born homosexuals or things like that. She said that she felt sorry for them. I asked her what she thought of peo- ple with an unusual sexual hangup such as lesbians and people with a particular fetish for certain things. She said that they were born this way and couldn't help it. I then told her that I had an unusual sex drive, but that it wasn't anything as drastic as being a homosexual or anything that extreme. I told her I was definitely heterosexual. She added a bit of hu- mor here by saying that she could vouch for that from experience. I told her that I wasn't going to hide anything, and that I wasn't going to lie about any part of it, that what I was getting ready to tell her was going to be very blunt and to the point. I wanted her to understand that I was- n't going to hold anything back.
At this point she said, "Honey, I love you. Please tell me, I'm sure I will understand.” I asked her if she knew what a Transvestite is, she said no. "A Transvestite," I said, "is an individual who receives some sexual and personal satisfaction by wearing the clothing of the opposite sex." I explained why it is more common in men, and that it does not replace the sexual relationship of a man and woman. I told her that she could be an FP, but might not know it because women can wear masculine cloth- ing and still be completely acceptable. On the other hand, a man is frowned upon if he has anything to do with anything feminine. I explained that an FP never at any time loses his masculine traits, and even when dressed is capable of defending his GG at all times. I told her that I had no desire for sex change, but that I could not give up being an FP and that she would have to accept Page completely. I explained that simple ac- ceptance was not enough, she must take an interest in Page and enjoy be- ing around her. I told her that she would have to have an interest in work- ing with Page in a national organization that she belongs to and that meet- ing and accepting other FP's and their GG's would be necessary.
At this point I told her that I realized that she would have to be around Page, and see her and see what it is like to spend time talking and being around an FP. I again emphasized the importance of complete accept- ance, no half-way thing, because I would want her to help me take part in the national organization. We would treat it just like any other mar- ried couple who belongs to a club or organization.
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